In 1988
the athletic shoe company NIKE launched the slogan “Just Do It”!
It was their way of reinventing the term, ‘go for it’. Since then it’s become an
integral part of modern culture and used in a myriad of ways, many of which
that have nothing to do with its original campaign. With that in mind, I’d like
to address something extremely personal on my end but I believe extremely
applicable to all who will read, and perhaps listen to what I say and take to
heart the words of a man that has lived and experienced more in his 60 years of
life than most will ever do. I want to reach out to men and women around the
world and create a wave of thought that will both challenge you and go against
the grain of popular thought; especially today’s liberal mindset that takes us
far away from principle and virtue. I will speak from my own life and not that
of others to deliver what I want to convey in hopes of driving the point deep
into the hearts of all who will read this. My ultimate hope is that truth will
prevail and true freedom will be achieved as a result of acting upon what I’m
about to say.
I’m
going to make a ridiculously bold statement here… “Sex has absolutely no
meaning apart from love!" It has no more value than the momentary relief
one gets from scratching the itch from a mosquito bite. You might argue that
sex and love are synonymous, but I completely disagree. In all my years of
living and striving, failed relationships and the devastating after-effects of
wild sexual encounters, I can safely say with great clarity that love and sex
are not one in the same, nor are they a prelude to each other. They actually
have a wide chasm between them that is only closed through the intimacy that
total commitment and abandonment of self as well as all else to the devotion
two people give and receive from each other when they declare to each other
what I call the "Agreement of Oneness”. Anything else is
nothing more than what the Bible calls fornication. Fornication
is simply put, consensual sex for the sake of pleasure outside of the
realm of the declaration of oneness. It is an insult to the image of God in us as it
completely denies His own personal Oneness. There is no commitment or purity
outside of God's intended oneness. It is a hard concept to grasp
given the fallen world in which we live and the societal ideologies we are
continually and ruthlessly bombarded with every single day. From television to
movies, books to magazine ads, you name it, the idea that anything goes is
deceptively and with great purpose shoved down our throats until we actually
accept and believe it is the norm. But it is not! As I said in a recent
conversation I had, just because something appears to be real doesn’t mean
it is. Civilizations rise and fall and historically sex has always played
a major role in their demise. Not conjecture, fact!
That may
have been a mouthful and a paragraph that causes some more grief than joy, but
it is one that should be highly considered given the gravity of what I’m hopefully
going to convey here. Let's raise the bar… take it to an otherworldly
level shall we say. Let's peel back the layers of the onion and say what most
are afraid to ever say, or agree with for that matter: sex outside of the
confines of its original intention is without a doubt a key factor in the Great
Deception! It massages the flesh, the id, the ego of me that goes against the
design of humility and selflessness and the grid of real love. It curses
the original design of God and the original intention for which it was created.
What do I mean original intention? I imagine most will read this and think me a
prude with no concept of the pleasure sex brings. On the contrary, I spent the
better part of a lifetime totally deceived by its powerful and delectable
bounty dining at its table and eating of its delicacies over
and over again. I was, shall we say, a glutton of its persuasive delights. But the truth is I was fully, and I
mean completely and utterly deceived by its illusive and destructive lie.
I am
neither prude nor under the stagnant religious idea that sex is for one
purpose only; procreation. But let me be clear, the concept of procreation in and of
itself is magnificently and mysteriously overwhelming for those who choose to engage
it at its deepest levels.
Procreation
is not just the propagating of oneself or a race, nor is it about the
preservation of a bloodline, it has far more significance than what is obvious. Procreating is co-creating. The ultimate gift of God given to man to share in
with the two halves of Himself, which God put in man and woman, coming together in unity and oneness, as He is One, and doing what only God
Himself is the author of, creating life itself. It is the reproduction of His own
image. It is His joy and great pleasure for us to be like Him! It is the celebration of our uniqueness in His likeness and our God-given familial right to become one and reproduce Him; one man, one woman... the masculine and feminine natures of God as one.
What glory, what power! What splendor! What privilege! I’m going to tell you a truth you
may not want to hear as the lies that have been told for so long make it almost
impossible to engage with our tainted flesh driven minds; there is incredible pleasure in our participation in the Original Blueprint. There is profound
satisfaction achieved in the deep joy that comes from oneness.
It is not just the bringing of life into existence but the sharing of intense
joy and incredible pleasure the process of bringing that life into
existence holds. In it we are able to experience God’s own joy achieved in unity. God
intended sex to be the perfect communication between the two halves; the ultimate picture of His own personal desire for intimacy with
us! It is the ultimate knowing (in Hebrew it’s the word yada)
of not just one another, but Him. The supreme giving and receiving mechanism
that can be achieved no other way by those created in His image. (If
you want something to think about in light of the fallacies of
homosexuality, look no further) Though procreation is a part of all facets of creation, it is not a pleasure-based reality in the rest of
creation as it has one purpose alone: increase. If it were just for the purpose of “gettin' ‘er done” then it would be over as fast as it began. Knowing is not necessary for that. Anything apart from the original design is to
lower ourselves to our most base-nature and imagining ourselves to be something we are not… animals or worse. How great is such deception? incomprehensible! It is nothing more than the
systematic devaluation of the image of God in us and the demoralization of the
creation itself. In other words, it is like spitting in the face of God as one arrogantly take their un-rightful place upon the throne of their life, which is nothing more than rebellion, and entering into agreement with God’s greatest enemy and destroyer
of all souls, Lucifer himself, arrogantly fall on our own sword. And to think, all that over the illusion of the momentary
pleasure derived outside of the intended realm of good where nothing is
restricted and true pleasure is undefiled.
How
could we be so blind? Why would we believe something so twisted? You may say it's always been this way, you’re making more out of it than it
is, then let me ask you a question, what is the oldest profession on this
planet? The answer is there is only one; prostitution! And what is prostitution? It is the
original instrument of darkness to persuade the fallen mind into believing its need for momentary gratification as it ultimately objectifies and mares the image of God. It
equates man with his supposed 'animal instincts' and gives him a deceptive
level of gratification that carries with it neither responsibility or commitment. Is it any wonder so
many children are born out of wedlock? Darkness
always twists and perverts what God creates and sees as 'good', and in this insane
microwave mentality of a world we live in, our darkest minds are exposed for all to see. Sadly, we celebrate the dark rather
than call it dark and see it for what it truly is, grotesque. When we live in
deception and function beneath the realities of who God has created us to be, and we no longer reflect the image
of the One who created us and we become the terrifying creations
of our own imaginations. And the nightmare continues for all those who are deceived and
refuse to believe the truth. No wonder the saying sex sells has such power!
There is
no judgment here; no condemnation. I have no fingers to point. If I pointed one
at you there would be three pointing back at me. I have done all that can be done… sadly, even as a believer in the God who made me I have done the unconscionable and inconceivable. I
have been the fool, agreeing with God's enemy, shaming His Name. But here is where hope and forgiveness come in... I personally believe there comes a time in our
lives when we wake up and realize we have been brutally deceived and say enough is enough, and then, out of our
own failures and experiences, we pay it forward by pulling the
curtain back on the master of all deception, Lucifer himself, shining the Light of Truth on the path
that points the way to freedom and the joy it brings. To snatch from the fire, as it were, those who are
perishing! Honestly, I wish someone had told me these things forty five years
ago when I began my own personal plunge into the darkest deception man has ever
known. But out of my own
deception I can be bold and make the truth known in hopes that someone, somewhere, even if it’s just you, will hear it and make the decision to obey. If it's true that “blessed is the man/woman
whose trust is the Lord"... then you won't be disappointed.
In the
meantime... just don't do it!
©
2014 Steven Bliss
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This is absolutely wonderful!!! I can relate totally!!! After many so called "relationships" that were not, I finally came to realize this truth!! I am at the place now in my life where i refuse to lower myself to Lucifers standards, in this area that has been so distorted all of my adult life. You can say, looking for love in all the wrong places...but it wasn't love at all. After the last encounter, i knew this was not what God had intended for me, to be so miserable afterwards, feeling lonely, sad and unloved, i guess not really understanding what love really is.. even though i have been a Christian for many years, this truth has finally been revealed in this area. Thank you He says, "go and sin no more". I am trusting and waiting on God for His perfect plan for me to be revealed, and it will be. His word never returns void. Thank you for this timely post, as it is a confirmation of what my God is doing in my life. :)
ReplyDeleteThank you Karen... what a great comment. I'm so glad it spoke to you. God bless you on your journey!
DeleteGreat post, man. Such truth. It stings!
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